HOW TO GET WHAT YOU WANT IN LIFE..

Hey...how are you doing today my friend?!...do you know is very easy to have everything you want in life?!..If you want a good house,car, job,business, or anything is very easy to get. Now i know right now you may be wondering like "is this guy serious?!", ooh yeah i am serious. I know you might be saying now "i have been trying to succeed for years but i couldn't" , well sorry for disappointments but is because you didn't know the principle of success. This principal is called " what you see is what you possess" and this lesson we can learn best from Abram in the bible. Come on let's look at it.

Genesis 13:14-18 (NIV)

¹⁴ The Lord said to Abram after Lot had parted from him, “Look around from where you are, to the north and south, to the east and west. ¹⁵ All the land that you see I will give to you and your offspring^[a] forever. ¹⁶ I will make your offspring like the dust of the earth, so that if anyone could count the dust, then your offspring could be counted. ¹⁷ Go, walk through the length and breadth of the land, for I am giving it to you.”
¹⁸ So Abram went to live near the great trees of Mamre at Hebron, where he pitched his tents. There he built an altar to the Lord.

If you normally read bible then you will understand well the man called Abram and what was his problem. The greatest desire of Abram was to get a child because he was at his old days without a child. So God appeared to him and promised  to make him father of nations but according to what facts said about him, he couldn't believe that he can be a father of nations. So God knew this and he had to train him how to see that's where the scripture kicks in.

God already blessed Abram but he also knew that those blessings can never reach him in reality unless he learns to see them first, if he couldn't see he couldn't possess them even though he was already in full ownership of them.  That's when he took him to the land and started training him how to see things first before he possessed them. Now that's what applies in our lives, you always want to become successful but you can't  is because you have not seen success already. You can't have what you don't see in life. Is until you see that's when  you own, now you want to be a big business man/woman in the world, okay question is do you see yourself as a big business man/woman in the world?!..you want to the best doctor, mum,dad or anything question still is do you see yourself being so?!..

This is very fundamental principal i learnt from the bible and it has helped a lot in my life. Now you may ask yourself that "how do i see success then?!"..well here is the secret.

On this passage the bible teaches how to see things we want before possessing them. How do we see them?..well before we own our dreams first we start seeing them in our souls or spirits. Our spirits are the first place where we get things we want, if you fail to see a business in your spirit don't expect to see it in your hands. Why so?

Proverbs 4:23 (KJV)

²³ Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life. Here the word "heart"  is used as figurative language indicating the "spirit". Bible says our spirits are issues of life that means everything you ever wanted in your life is in your spirit. If you want to live the reality of your dream you have to see it first from your spirit. No wonder you are a failure because that's what you saw and possessed. You have to learn to see things from your spirit first that's when you can possess them.

QUESTION IS TODAY:  What do you see?!! .

3 KINDS OF MINDSET.

Well, in the last post we looked at mindset and it's meaning. We also looked how it is formed and works. Is good to know how your mindset operate but is not good enough because you have to know in which type of mindset do you operate on. When you know the type of mindset you have is easy to re-direct your life to a better angle. I want to share with in short the three types of mindsets as follows,

i) FIXED MINDSET.
As it sounds, this is type of mindset which is stagnant in one place. Is mindset where it refuses to expand it's own horizons. It is stuck in only one type of belief, thought and mental attitude. The danger of this kind of mindset is that it forces you to stay within your limits and make you feel comfortable when you are not growing. The most common characteristic of this mindset is fear of moving out of your comfort zone. The person in this category can never achieve anything great because he is afraid and scared, because great achievements need a dynamic mindset not static. So if your stuck in a fixed mindset of being ordinary when a person comes and motivate you to be more than ordinary chances are you will see him/her as enemy because you are comfortable staying as a failure.

ii) GROWTH MINDSET.
This is one of my favorate and i advice you to build yourself in this type of mindset because is where success,greatness and winners are born. This type of mindset allows you to grow everyday to reach your full potential and accomplish your dreams. This mindset allows to expand your territory through learning from others, your experiences. This mindset makes you strive to become a better person each day in your life. It doesn't allow stagnancy but allows dynamic well being of your life. Mind you though, the greatest enemy of this mindset is wrong friends, wrong thoughts, don't invite them in your life at all because they are poisonous. To grow this mindset you need right people and thoughts in you.

iii) DOUBLE MINDSET.
Now this is most dangerous mindset of all because it leaves you in dilemma. One of the valuable asset it will rob you is your FOCUS. That's why it's called double, it blinds you of what you want and you can't make any decision in life. I guess you have ever come across such kind of people when you ask them about their vision,dreams and hope, what they will tell you is they don't know what the future holds for them. Is so sad to live in this kind of mindset because you will never be happy at all. People in this agony don't know what they want, they just live for the sake of living.

NOTE:  Well till now you know in which type of mindset you are. My advise is if you are in fixed or double mindset, is time to shift to growth mindset which is the best place you can learn and grow to become what you were meant to become.

CHANGE YOUR MINDSET CHANGE YOUR LIFE.

Among the things you are supposed to be careful with is your mindset because our mindsets shape our worlds. The quality of your mindset will determine the quality of your life. The life you are living today is the result of your mindset of yesterday. You may be wondering why your life is the way it is, but all that came from your mindset.

Our mindsets make us, our mindsets break us, our mindsets build us, our mindsets destroy us you have to be very watchful with it. Now let's look at it in details.

What is mindset?

Now in this definition there 3 important things being put across.

i)Belief.

be·lief

noun \bə-ˈlēf\

: a feeling of being sure that someone or something exists or that something is true. If you are life is not going well the first place to check is your belief. Belief is a strong thing which exists inside everyone of us and  is the foundation of how we will live our entire lives and how we will conduct and lead our lives. If you are born in a belief where it tells you that being wealthy is evil then through your entire life you won't dare to become wealthy and probably you will hate rich people. If you are born in a belief where there is inferiority complex then you won't be able to go beyond your limitations because you are formed into a circle of fear and failure. If you are born in a belief where they see success,possibilities and opportunities then your life will be expanding to the best everyday. Don't start checking the results of why you are living the life of failures, first check the belief behind the results. Our beliefs are obtained from only 2 places
i) From our family backgrounds
ii)From our own personal experiences

Good news is you can change your belief from poverty to wealthy, failure to success, loser to winner, inferior to superior, it is possible my friend and it all starts with you. You don't have to be a slave of your family's belief or your unfortunate circumstance belief no!..you can change it today just decide from now on you are not going to be conformed to your loser's belief, failure's belief and shift to new foundation of winning and success belief.

 

ii) Thoughts

thought¹

noun

1.

the product of mental activity; that which one thinks :

a body of thought.

2.

a single act or product of thinking; idea or notion:

to collect one's thoughts.

It says thoughts are product of thinking , now how are  thoughts formed?!!...well your thoughts are formed by belief. So if your belief is poverty then what you will be thinking always is poverty and that's what you will become a poor person. Your thoughts are very powerful because they can create a reality equal to them. There 2 kinds of thoughts

i) Constructive thoughts: These kind of thoughts allow you to grow and build yourself positively through allowing positive things,idea,conversation to enter in you,

ii)Destructive thoughts: These kind of thoughts can't allow you to grow and are very dangerous, poisonous. They don't let you reach your potentials and become what you were meant to become. They can only attack you when you always let negative things take control of your life.

See how powerful your thoughts are?...so you have to choose what to think each and everyday. Before allowing any thought to enter inside you measure the effect it will have in you.

iii) Mental Attitude.

a complex mental state involving beliefs and feelings and values and dispositions to act in certain ways.

So this falls in sequential order, your belief and thoughts will determine how you will respond to things outside you. Look the way you act everyday if is fear then you have to go back to belief and thoughts. So is easy to know in which condition you are, simply by looking the way you act. Am repeating again it's possible you can change your life just decide and when you do start changing from inside-out.

IN SUMMARY;  Formular of your life success/failure.

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              .  .  LIFE = BELIEF + THOUGHT + MENTAL ATTITUDE.

IMPORTANT ADVICE FROM WORLD TOP BILLIONAIRES.

Warren Buffet

Donald Trump

 

Mark Zuckerberg

Bill Gates

John Rockefeller

Sam Walton

Elon Musk

                                      **ENJOY THE WISDOM**

THE ROOT OF ALL SUCCESS IS GOD.

What am sharing with now is so important and requires your maximum attention and meditation on the details because this is very powerful  testimony which is still working for me till now. Listen, all my life i have been trying to fight hard to become successful. I lost some hours of sleep, went up and down, took every opportunity i had you know i was a go harder man. But unfortunately after using my own strength and understanding at the end of the day i didn't achieve anything apart from disappointments. You know when you try so hard to succeed and you fail, you may want to give up.

 I was in deep dilemma as to why i go so hard and i fail to succeed, until i found a scripture from the book of proverbs 3:5-6, which has changed my life till now. It says,

  In this passage the bible talks about 2 important fundamentals of success.

i) DEPEND ON GOD FOR YOUR SUCCESS NOT YOU.
Bible says trust in the lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding, that means God knows every step you are supposed to go before you even think of it. He knows before you plan, he knows what is best for you, he knows future, he knows ten to thirty years to come,he knows everything about you. And good thing is he wants you successful, all he needs from you is to trust him and depending on him with your heart and with everything you have.

 You know most people rely so much on themselves to accomplish their dreams but they end up worn out, but i realized that "success is not hard working only but is hard working with smartness". Being successful is supposed to be a happy journey with lots of fun but that can only occur if you depend on God always for your journey and not your knowledge. Today in my life accomplishing anything has been easier than ever because i don't struggle to do anything because i know God has already figured it out, all i do is seeking his wisdom and apply it simple as that. It's time to cast your proudness away and let God be in control, you will be amazed at massive success you will get. Just depend on him.

ii) LEARN TO PARTNER WITH GOD IN EVERYTHING.
This very important lesson the bible teaches about success is that learn to engage God in every thing you do. Before you decide to think about something, first welcome God to think it through together am assuring you will get unique new ideas and solutions you have never thought in your life. I have been doing this kind of thing every day of my life and many people are wondering where am i getting many ideas every time,that's my secret because we are partners with God. When you develop this habit you will always live victorius life and God will be closer to you in each step because is pleased by those who love him, who engage him in whatever they do. And amazing thing is God wants to be your friend and is interested to be in each part of your life because he wants you to be happy. Now, you may ask how do you partner with God?..Well the only way is through prayers,before you set out to do anything first take it to God and ask him what should you do to get results and as you meditate you will find fresh new ideas popping up your mind, well is him talking to you. And by the way he has many ways he can use to talk to you but all am saying is before you take out matters in your hands, take them to him first and discuss them together.

YOU ARE THE ONE TO DETERMINE YOUR VALUE.

You ever wonder why people look down on you?!...ever imagined why your project is not accepted?!..ever ask yourself why you are not appreciated?!..well today am going to tell you what is happening in your life.

Someone said "if you aren't being treated with love and respect, check your price tag, may be you have marked yourself down. It's you who tells people what you are worth. Get off the clearance rack and get behind  the glass where they keep the valuables". This is the reason why you are living under low self esteem is because you don't value yourself. People will only treat you the way you treat yourself.

I was one of the victim in this kind of situation when i was in high school. I was a guy who strive to be accepted by others therefore i was ready to pretend and sacrifice my dignity just to please others but trust me the end results were not good. It was terrible and pitiful life i lived. This made me to see the world so unfair and injustice to an extent i started isolating myself from people. But i didn't know that all that problem from people i was the one who caused it. It's because i didn't value myself  so i affected others around me because these things are contagious.

Listen to me my friend no one was created useless by God. Everyone in this world has a unique value to share with others. You might be in a enviroment where it robs your value and make you blind not see how worthy you are. You know what, don't let the enviroment or the eyes of others to determine your value be the one to do that. See i know you want to change the world with a great dream or idea you have but they won't be valued if you don't value them first. Things become valuable to others when they are valuable to you.

You are one of the greatest person i have ever heard in this world, I so strongly believe in you because i know you were created with precious value and you are expected to bring that value in this world. So stop living as an option in life, start living as priority and show the world how worthy you are. It's only those who know their value get to conquer their destinies. Change your mind and see it with positive eyes that you matter in this life because you do.

HOW TO BECOME HAPPY IN LIFE.

The world is so filled with people who are unhappy always and wherever you go only thing you will find is complains not joyous confessions about how good life is. See when you want to enjoy success you have to be happy because happiness is what makes your life enlightened. If you can't be happy in your life then is very hard to become successful. And happiness can't be found on how much wealthy you have or things you own no!...happiness is our nature we were created with from heaven.

Bible says in GENESIS 1:31
" God looked at everything he had made, and he was very pleased. Evening passed and morning came - that was the sixth day". That means whatever God created was equal to what he was and couldn't make anything less than him. Meaning that if he was pleased with what he created then even the one created had to be pleasing, had to be happy so God can be happy since we are expression of him. You see how God intended you to be happy then why do you live the life which was not designed for you?. Okay let's define happiness.

What is happiness?
 Happiness is emotion evoked by satisfaction,appreciation and pleasure. So when God created us, he was pleased with us, appreciated how he created us and took pleasure in us, in other words he created us to be happy that's why i told you happiness is not about things but is nature were created in.

If you discover this secret that happiness is your nature, you will live a very fulfilling life to an extent it will be contagious to other people around you, because God didn't create you to suffer no!..no!..athousands times no.You were created to be happy and enjoy life till the end. God always thinks best of us, the bible says,

Jeremiah 29:11 (GNT)

¹¹ I alone know the plans I have for you, plans to bring you prosperity and not disaster, plans to bring about the future you hope for.   

^{See God always thinks best for you, he cares for you why can't you understand that?... Life become enjoyable when you know that you are loved by mighty God. He has good intentions for you and wants to see you happy always, so take advantage of that grace and live it, is for you.}

^{Now i want to show 3 ways you can create your happiness.}

^{i)HAPPINESS STARTS FROM YOUR SPIRIT .} 

^{You may think that to become happy is until things change but truth is things won't change until you become happy from inside. Don't let outside forces change your inside because you control life from inside-out not outside-in. You have to create that happiness from your spirit because you were made to be happy. Your outside enviroment is only changed by your spirit, if you can't be happy in your spirit then don't expect to be happy in whatever you do. Just decide today inside your spirit that you are going to be happy because the bible says, in}

                      Proverbs 4:23E (ESV)

                     ²³ Keep your heart with all vigilance,
                  for from it flow the springs of life.

 This means you are the life to your life , your spirit gives life to the world outside you. So if you can't be happy inside what you will produce is death,sadness,sorrow to everything you have or do. Look at your spirit today  and ask yourself what kind of spring you have been giving out and change it.

ii)  HAPPINESS COMES FROM DOING WHAT YOU LOVE.

The reason you are not happy with the course your studying,job you have or project you are doing is not that you aren't compitent enough but is because you don't like what you do. Most  people live in this shadow of life and is a big reason why they are not happy in life. Don't do things because you want to please people or to earn cheap popularity but do things because you love doing them, that's where passion kicks in. You can't experience real happiness if you are not passionate about what you do, however much nice a thing may seem but the end result is disappointment, anger, disatisfactions. God put passions in each one of us for a reason because he wanted us to live happy and uncomplicated life. Stop living like that while you know you can change it now.

iii) HAPPINESS COMES WHEN YOU HELP OTHERS TO BECOME HAPPY.

There is no greatest happiness than seeing someone else happy and smiling because of you. That's life of meaning you have to live. You have a nature of happiness share it with others to become to like you,

 ^{Be a reason for someone's else happiness today, i can assure you that you won't regret it. But mind you that you don't want to make happy people who are cheap, who don't know the value of being happiness to someone else, give it to those who deserve and embrace it. This is the life am living that i always love to see other people happy, i want them to become happy like me and it's because i chose to be happiness to others you can too if you want. You never know how your simple smile,appreciation,compliment can do so much positive change in someone's life. Just become it and you will see the brighter your life will become.}

  

   **HAPPINESS IS A CHOICE WHICH YOU ONLY CAN MAKE**.

 

YOUR LIFE IS INSPIRATION TO OTHERS USE IT WISELY.

One of the things i used to feel bad about is my life, because when i was growing up especially in adulthood stage it wasn't that sweet. I was so much ruled with low self esteem,inferiority complex, feeling unworthy and desperately lost my self value to please others, sad life uuh?!..It was real lonely life underneath with feeling that the world is for others not me.

I neglected my life so much to an extent i lost interest in me. I recall that one day when i was at university in Uganda i decided to write a book of how miserable my life was from all angles of it. The reasons i wrote it is because i felt alone and the only way to keep me company was through writting. I wrote only 4 chapters of the book by the way. But one Monday morning in 2011 marked the beginning of new happy for me, when i was watching a webinar of the great motivational speaker called BRENDON BURCHARD founder of Expert Academy. He was talking about his life and how he came to form his career,company and succeeded to change people's lives.

There is one statement he said which drew my attention, he said "it doesn't matter how hard experiences you are passing through in your life but all of that is preparing you to be an inspiration to others, don't look down on your life because other people's lives depend on it". I felt like something revived in me and made me a new person suddenly. My persipective about life changed instantly and looked at it at the positive side. So i told myself  if my life is inspiration to others why don't turn it to my lifetime career?.That's when i started doing motivational speaking and changed a lot of people's lives.

Now, what am saying is you might be in the same point of your life as i was or  far more more worse than me but you know what?!..you can turn that misery into inspiration and catalyst of change in the world. Don't under estimate the value of each experience in your life because inside it there is wisdom others will want to learn from you. Your life path is what people are interested more than anything because someone can only be inspired by the same situation you went through and overcame.

The reason i am what i am today is because i looked at the brighter side of my life, tapped the wisdom and used it to change lives, you can also do that. Whenever you here me speaking, my lessons are filled with passion,transformation and energy because i teach about my life path.

 If you are interested to make the world a better place then this article is for you. Is good to step up for change because that's what makes real success, but one thing you must know is people will only follow the idea of change which is consistent with real life path of you. Meaning that people are more interested to be changed by experience which you also passed through.

Inspiring others is good thing you can do to your life and the world because people need inspiration every day to move on towards their dreams. I repeat you can inspire others, what you need are these,

i)Take your note and find some place quiet.
ii)Reflect deeply each experience you passed through your life and write them down.
iii)In each experience observe the lesson(s) it taught you.
iv)Then ask yourself how you can use those lessons to inspire others in the situation.
v)Go out there start changing lives.

4 CHARACTERISTICS OF GREAT PEOPLE.

Yesterday i had wonderful time at CITY HARVEST CHURCH overseen by Apostle Dr.Livingstone Banjagalla , it was very wonderful service full of blessings. But what made me so blessed are the sermons he taught in 1st and 2nd service titled AM STILL IN HIS HANDS and BLESSINGS OF THE FATHER.

What he taught was phenomeno and i meditated about those two sermons all day long and i was suprised by what God taught me about greatness. You know God is unpredictable, always new and he can teach a lesson in a lesson that's why he is great God. I understand that every human being greatest desire is to be a great person on earth. Sure thing is greatness is available to anyone who wants it but it costs to get it.

Remember this  "only cheap things get sold but greatness costs what it costs", you have to get it into your head that anything worthy having has a price to pay whether you like it or not and mind you that the price always may not be as sweet as you think but is worthy  it trust me. Now before you want to become a great person, you have first to know the characteristics of great people because they all have those in common. There are many things you will have to learn to be great person but fundamentals start with characteristics, in others words how they conduct themselves and here are 4 characteristics of great people,

i)MATURITY
If you want to become a great person in the world this is the first step you have to pass through. Maturity is not all about age or physical body as you think but maturity is about knowing your responsibility. You have to be responsible for everything. Great person knows that his life is in his own control not in someone's else so whatever happens in his life, he takes for accountability for it. And this level of maturity doesn't come with your age or body but it comes by your mindset. What mindset do you have about yourself?!..how you see yourself is how you respond to things outside you. Don't go around making people responsible for your life because they are not and will never be. You are the one who dictates everything in your life. whether you are a failure or success is your responsiblity only, so stop throwing zingaz on other people analyze yourself again.

 

Don't expect anyone to come and push you to do something no!..you have to motivate yourself every day and go out there and do something for your dream. No one will be interested to help you if you are not responsible person. People who are responsible are the ones who become great in life.

ii) PREPARATION.
One of my friends said "when opportunity meets preparation success is bound to occur", what a statement. And this is problem of many they want success but are not prepared. Let me tell you greatness is like a woman it's attracted, so if you want to seduce it you have to know what it likes and hates. If you know that and put yourself together in line with it's likes then  will come to you. Okay, you want to be a business person question is do you know anything about business?..do you know how business people talk or think?..do you you read books or articles about business?..do you associate with them or just locking yourself up in the house and watch movies?....see if you can't do that how will you become a big business man?.
It's impossible for you to succeed even if they give you a huge opportunity because you are not prepared for anything. Do always be quick to chase success or greatness first seat down and learn their habits and characteristics, practice them until you become them. Opportunity favors only the prepared.

iii) HARD WORKING .
This part is where painful process of paying for greatness occurs. In your way to greatness you will meet alot of challenges and storms, sometimes it will reach a stage where you will want to give up but what will keep you going is hard working. A person who is hard working gets a crown of greatness. Hard working is being committed to what you do no matter what may prevail in your way to achievement. Here is where most people back down and enjoy the life of being ordinary. Results come only when you work hard towards your dreams,business,school,project everything, there is no short cut to that you have to go through the process and it's not comfortable or joyful process by the way.

iv) VALUE CREATORS.
Great person always believe that you become great by helping other people to become great. In other words your life will change when you start changing other people's lives. Heart of service is the most powerful strength great people have. You have to build the habit of serving others that's where your success is found. Don't be so selfish and greedy looking what's in for you always, you will never be a great person. You were created to add value in the world and your value will increase if you add value to others. To have a great dream, product or idea only is not enough but how does it serve your community, customers and country at large. That is great secret of being greatly successful in life, learn to serve people because people can't serve you if you can't serve them.

In whatever you want to initiate in your country or community first see how will it add value to them and change their lives. Believe you me there is nothing great than seeing lives have been changed because of you.

 

WHAT MAKES GREAT PERFORMERS.

You know when you look at high performers like steve jobs, bill gates, mark zuckerburg and many others, you may be wondering how they are able to stay up on the game for years. Sometimes you may aspire to be like them but you get scared that you will never be able to reach their level. Okay, i want to assure you today that you can be more than them if you want to because what they possess you also have only that you didn't know. And that is what we call PASSION, come on let's look at it.

What is passion..

 I love the third definition which is more concrete it says "an intense desire or enthusiasm for something" that means passion is something which makes you lose sleep whenever you walk or sit down down all you think about is that things. Now don't confuse interest with passion because interest can be for a short while passion is for the life time, it fires within you everyday, it doesn't make you comfortable it pushes you to go out and make it happen. Something you think about everyday to accomplish, something you are able to give all of yourself to achieve it that's is passion.

Passion exists in all of us created by God, in your passion is where you find your purpose. Great performers in the world are known for their passion in what they do, in other words they love what they and do what they love. If you want to change the world around you first thing you need is to discover your  passion for whatever you will initiate. Many people fail to go for long term in many things because of lacking passion. What makes you alive each day is your passion. Passion is the fuel for great performance and achievement in things you want to do. Passion makes you creative and strong to persevere heavy storms of life because you will have to face them whether you like or not.

As for i was doing CISCO NETWORKING CERTIFICATE course and this thing has value in the market of technology and by the way i passed with flying colours, i could go and get a job from anywhere. Fun thing is i did it to impress my parents but it was not a passion i had. Mine was to be a motivational speaker which i am now. So with that IT course i couldn't perform greatly when i face real technical situations because i didn't love it. So one day i decided to lock all my certificates and start persuing my passion which is to be an inspiration to others because is what made me not to settle and think about it day and night. Well that caused conflicts with my parents and faced alot of discouragements but what kept me going is my passion for what i was doing and that made me to perform best and changed many people's lives.

You too can become a great performer is possible and possible, all you need is to know what you are passionate about because many people they feel something burning inside but not exactly sure what it is. Now am going to give guideline questions which may help you to figure out your passion okay.

ILLUSTRATION: Take a notebook and a pen write these questions and their answers then work on them.

i)What are you strongly interested about in your life.
ii)What have you always wanted to become
iii)What gives you greatest fulfillment
iv)What do you constantly imagine about your future
v)What do you do best with the least effort
vi)What would do for free with all your heart
vii)What one thing would you do if you knew you would not fail

There you go remember to revise your answers till you get a clarity of what your passionate about and most importantly act on them.

LIFE IS A CHOICE.

Albert Einstein said  "Unexamined life is not worthy living" meaning that if you don't check your life regulary it will be so hard for you to be successful because what you don't know is what destroys you. The most important area which we should be analyzing is choices we make everyday. Your life is where it is not by accident but  by choices you made long time ago. Our lives are product  of choices whether good or bad. If you are failing in life or succeeding is because of what you chose for yourself.

Choices are powerful catalyst before anything can happen. Every where we go we are surrounded by choices and we will be forced to make them. See i started this blog by choice because i wanted to educate and inspire millions of people around the world. May be as you are reading this you might be in ugly stand point of your life and wonder how to get out of there,well all you need is make a choice to get out of there and move on simple as that. Don't take for granted the power of your choices because is the foundation of greatness or smallness.

Okay i want to challenge you today so that you can make better choices for your life,because you have been blaming other people for your failures always but you didn't know that you were pioneer of them because of your choices. Choices are easy to make but the results attached with it can be so painful if you are not careful. But good news is you can change them at any time you want, doesn't need the all year. Okay

i)Identify the area of your life which has poor performance i.e Relationship, Job, School, Personal life, Finances etc

ii)Examine the root problems for the poor performance. Write them down

iii)Then examine the choices you made which caused the poor performance.Write them down

iv)Change your choices


                         ***simple as that change your life***

WHO DO YOU CALL A FRIEND?!

Among the people who have learnt the lesson about friends i think am one of them. There are things you may always ignore in your life but needs much attention. They may seem obvious but impactful  and powerful, and these are what we call FRIENDS, who do you call a friend?!

A friend is an important person in your life who can either lead you to failure or success. You have to be very careful with this person because if you make a mistake he/she can make your life a living hell.

I was a person who had big number of people i call friends but as i was growing in wisdom of myself and success , i realized that 99% of all friends i had where not what i called them and they conformed me to be a failure always. I remember one of the saddest virus i was infected by them is inferiority complex. I was a person with low esteem and didn't like who i was, my friends always looked down on me. It was really miserable life i lived but i thank God after knowing this i started chopping one by one till today i can say i have a limited number of people i can friends.

Let me tell you something is not the number of people you have that you call friends  matters but what matters is the influence they come with in your life. In this world there are only 2 types of friends

i)FRIENDS WITH CONSTRUCTIVE INFLUENCE.
These are type of friends who are one in a million if you get one please don't let  him/her go. These types of friends always love to see you at your best peak and success always. They are friendship basis is built in pure loyalty,trust,love and honesty. They are ready to sacrifice their interests just for yours and when they see you losing it will come and tell you openly and put you back on track. These are friends whose greatest fulfillment is to see you owning your destiny and like i said they are one in a million therefore are hard to find since only God possesses and you have to pray to get them. These are friends who will always believe in you,your dreams when everyone else don't. They understand that you are not perfect with a lot of faults but still find you so perfect before their eyes. They are willing to fight for you and let no one talk behind your back.

 ii)FRIENDS WITH DESTRUCTIVE INFLUENCE.
These are type of friends who will laugh with you, play but inside their heart they always wish that you never make any step in life. These people sometimes are too hard to notice but only one situation will reveal them,

When you are in hard time is only perfect measure to know this type of people, trust me they are only interested with what they benefit from you and not what happens to you. These people can't allow anyone to get their wings and fly because they feel comfortable when you are both stagnant. Many of us live with these people and we proudly and blindly call them friends . Just measure your life may be for past 3 years and ask yourself have your friends taken you any step further or you are still where you are?..Then if you aren't it's high time you need to evaluate and do some prunning in your life otherwise they will kill your destiny.

One thing i want you to put in your mind is people are people that's why we call them human beings.They change always and have no guarantee but if you want real friend who will be there no matter what start with GOD because he knows you before you were created. He knows where you come from, where you are going,desires,dreams,hopes,faults,disappointments everything about you is written on  palm of his hand. He is a person who stands for you when everybody else has run away. For him loyalty and love are his nature is wonderful friend you can count on for anything. Truth is God longs to be friends with you, all you need is welcome him in your heart. If you really want him to be your friend say this simple prayer with me.

Oooh, Lord GOD i come to you,
For the past few years i let bad friends destroy my life,
I expected so much from people than you,
All  people i trusted, loved have betrayed me,
But today i know that you are true friend i have,
Forgive my sins and all wrong i did,
Write my name in a book of forgiveness and friends in heaven,
I received you Jesus as my lord, saviour and best friend,
Now i believe you are already in my life,
In Jesus name i pray...amen!!!

Congratulations now you have a best friend in the world, only way to keep him closer and closer is through reading the word of God,pray to him and look up on him everyday.

CHANGE FROM BEING A WISHER TO A DREAMER.

These are two concepts which have been so much misinterpreted by people. A dreamer and a wisher are far away two people in different worlds and huge number of people are wishers than dreamers that's why  they get old with their dreams and unfortunately most of them go to the grave with their dreams. Probably you might be one of those population who always celebrates your friend's dreams in reality and wondering why yours can't surface the world.

Well your problem is simple it's that you didn't know you are a wisher in the first place, then you didn't recognize the difference between a dreamer and a wisher. See this is amazing thing about understanding, the root of all problems or solutions come from it. The more you get to understand something clearly the more is easy to engage in it and vice versa. Now today am going to lay a foundation on this two concepts so that you can be able to separate a dreamer from a wisher. You ready?!...alright let's get it.

Who is a dreamer?

See, here there is something very important to notice from this definition it says "one who understands they have the power to transform a thought into physical reality and make the dreams come true". Now from this definition i want to break down to you 4 things which defines the dreamer.

i)Dreamers have high knowledge of themselves.
This is the first ground rule which defines dreamers that they know who they are in this world. In other words  dreamers understand that they were created for a purpose and that is to bring an impact in this world.  They know that are alive but also why they alive, they know what are capable and made of. So if you want to be a dreamer you have to get in attention that you are not here to just live and pass time no, you are here for a special mission, now its you to pray to God to show you your assignment because a world awaits for you to bring something revolutionally to make it a better  place.

ii)Dreamers understand the power of their thoughts.
When it comes to this area dreamers protect it with all their strength because they know thought have the power to create their destiny. Don't ever under estimate your thoughts because what you think is what you become whether is positive or negative. Any dream is initiated and created by your thoughts. Dreamers are very precautious of what they let their minds get into because the quality of your thoughts determines the quality of life. Dreamers are very selective too when it comes to conversations,reading and friends, all of these create thoughts which comes with the power to change their destinies.

iii)Dreamers understand that a dream without a plan is simply a wish.
Well you can't have a dream and ignore the principal of planning because it won't happen no matter what. To have a plan for your dream is very important because is what takes you closer to it. A dreamer knows that his/her dream is bigger than them and it can't be accomplished overnight, it takes time and process to reach out to it and that's where a plan kicks in. In simple definition a plan is a well organized and defined steps to reach the desired goal. So plan is crucial whether you like it or not.

iv)Dreamers understand that a DREAM + PLAN + ACTION are formidable combination of success.

 Nothing can ever come to reality without action taking place even you have a dream and a plan at hand. The beauty of your dream is seen in your actions ,without action forget about it. Don't only vision good things and let them stay inside your mind but go out there and make it happen, it's only way to fulfill it.

Now who is a wisher?

I guess even before i go further you can see who a wisher is. Is simply someone who has a strong desire for something but let it rotate inside and can't make it happen. There is only one sthing which defines wisher


i)Wishers are cowards.
Sorry, it seems very harsh word to use but that is the truth whether you like it or not. Wishers feel very comfortable only to have fantasy of the things they want in real life which they could get if they shift to be dreamers. Why?! because they are scared of doing anything, they can't keep up with challenges and always find excuses to give. In this category you will find lots of people, and they can't dare anything great for their lives. These are what we call escorters of those who have dreams, their job is to celebrate others not themselves. Sometimes they wish as it sounds that they could be like someone else and this is where they become envious,angry for nothing at those who managed to become dreamers. And wishers always find a way to put down those who dare to become dreamers. You don't want to be in this place my friend it stinks and stressing so much. But you can change today if you decide, anything is possible under the sun.


**Remember life is a choice,so which one of these person you want to be?!**

BECOME UNFRAID CHARACTER (questionnaire)

Today i just want to destroy that  fear in you by simply asking you some serious questions because it's time for you to rise up and succeed. . You have been living in failure race for so long because you were afraid of doing anything. Fear is the dream killer and is a most common travelled road for failures and i am very certain that you don't want to be one of those people. Now just think deeply about these questions and please am asking kindly to take actions on your answers because there is no results without actions.

i)Why are you afraid?
ii)Do you think it's a good reason to be afraid?
iii)Okay,since you started being afraid how far have you reached?
iv)Then why don't you change you are mindset?
v)What thing would do if you knew that you wouldn't fail?
vi)Then why can't you do it now?
vii)Can you do it?
viii)Go and do it....

NOTE: These questions may look simple  but very powerful which can overcome that fear in you only thing you need is to be focused with them to see the impact.

                ***HAPPY FRIDAY COMRADES***

1# SECRET OF GREAT ACHIEVERS.

Little while ago i have been wondering how these great people have been able to achieve greatest results in their lives. To me one of the major factors i thought is hard working, but i discovered that is not enough to make you achieve great results. I realized that hardworking goes hand in hand with fundamental discipline called FOCUS. Focus is the greatest asset of all big achievers, because you can work hard but if you lack focus then fruits of your work will be disappointing. Now let's look at it

Definition of focus,

It says focus is "maximum clarity" and this statement can be broken into 2 components

1)You have to know what you want.
This is the first component of focus,that you have to know what you want first. You will never be able to determine any results if you don't know what you are in for,and this has become a problem to many people who are trying to land their dreams. When you ask them what are they really trying to achieve they can't say it. Listen is great to be dreamer but if your dream doesn't focus on anything you will waste a lot of time. Thats why maximum clarity is very important before you even go for actions of whatever you want to do.

2) You have to know how you are going to get what you want.
When it comes to this part is easier because you have  a clarity on what you want. This component serves you with a road map to getting your results. Either way the "how" stage needs also to be defined and planned very carefully otherwise you won't be able to get what you want. Because the results you want are so big not to be achieved in one swoop so it has to be stages and processes broken down to meet the end  goal and this component does it so best.

Mind you that focus is not an easy thing to maintain unless you have discipline in your core values because as you are trying to concentrate on one end be assured that other things which look more good might come in your way trying to distract you and the only way you can win them is to know what results you want and measuring if those things will contribute to what you want to achieve, if not cancel them away.

There is common statement you will hear among many "am very busy" thinking that they are focused no!..let me tell you being busy doesn't mean you will be a great achiever, you may find that you are busy for nothing. Because is not how long you work on something but how well you are able to execute your priorities. Great achievers are masters of priorities that's why they are able to maintain their focus every day and enjoy the big success. Because priorities give you a guidance on what to do and not to do in order to keep your results intact. Good news is you can be one of great achievers too if you decide today.

Listen these great people you hear are not more special than you no!.they are just normal human beings like you but the only difference is they decided to cultivate the habits of greatness and being result oriented by becoming people of focus in whatever they do , they throw all of themselves in. You can be that and i strongly believe in you then why can't you start today?!.