BECOME A CREATOR NOT A DEPENDER.

I remember one Sunday after morning service, i was sharing different experiences about life with pastor john simon. As we were talking someone called him and converse for a while. After hanging up a call, he made a very remarkable statement which made me see opportunity till today.

He said "son in your life don't ever wait for opportunities to come to you, create them and is what i just did right now through this call" . It was very transformational advice in my life and i owe him respect for that lesson, he is the great man for sure. I took that advice into my heart and started working on it immediately.

Since my aspiration is to be a great influencial motivational speaker in Africa, i created my first seminar called 40 DAYS OF DISCOVERING YOUR PURPOSE. It was about knowing why you were created in the world rather than knowing you are alive only. At that time i had only a seminar in my notebook but no platform to reach out people, so i decided to create my own platform.

I woke up in the morning and went to certain church, and i met with a senior pastor, i told him about my subject and what i intended for people to achieve at the end of it. That pastor liked the subject so much and gave me one day trial to teach in mass service. I was trembling and it was my first time standing infront of church but i killed it and the rest is history.

The world is full opportunities only that most people are lazy to go for them. I always wonder why people complain life is hard while he has everything within him to become successful. When you say that life is hard to me is like mocking God why?..because he took plenty of time and skills to create you (Plasms 139:14-16) and (Genesis 1:26-27). He has put all opportunities in you, what you need is to see them and create them. Reason why most african countries are poor is because they are taught to be dependants than being creators. Why would you depend on another human being to create your life instead of you being in charge?..If you want to enjoy many opportunities learn to create them. All great people you hear are masters of creating not depending.

Life can be  of limitless opportunities if you become a creator. Till today i don't worry about opportunities because i can create them at any time i want and how i want, for one thing i know i am completely master piece from heaven designed for success, so are you. The world can be in your hand just in a second if you decide to be a creator of opportunity and I BELIEVE IN SPECIAL YOU YOU, create them now.

LIFE REVIVAL APPETIZER.

Hey my friend i just want to ask you some 4 serious questions about your life. Better be honest with yourself because i want to help you change. Okay,

1)Look at your life right now
2) Do you like where it is right now.
3)Then why do you get comfortable with the life you don't like?!
4)Do you want to change it?..if yes, continue reading

That's right you only need to make a decision and act on it. Remember the life you live now is not yours , you are far more best than that. In you there is great potential which can take your life to another direction totally. You have been living in a rat race for so long now is time to break the rules and put your life in order. Just make a decision to change it. Is simple as it sounds

You don't need the all year,money or resources to decide no, you only need a change in your state of mind. It all starts with your mind. And i strongly believe in you for a fact i know that God created you the best person and he wants you to change the world. Make your life meaningful and inspiring because masses are waiting to be changed by your life path. MAKE A DECISION TODAY!. now is the time you have.

REWRITE YOUR GOALS- (simple quiz)

I know at least every person on the earth had a target to accomplish certain goal. But unfortunely few people get to the end of their goals and big number don't. You might be one of those people who couldn't achieve your goals within the timeline. Goals are like marathon, if you are not careful and focus along the way you might bump on a stone and you will either get up moving on or stay there wait for medic which will never come. So if you want to achieve your goals i have set up a simple quiz which helps to analyze yourself as to where caused failure to your goals and where to improve them.

Success or failure of your goals is not resources but is person himself. Okay here is the quiz.

Instruction.
1)Follow the steps as they are
2)Take your time in answering the questions don't be in a hurry
3)Revise your answers over and over again till you get clarity.

i)Take a pen and piece of paper or your note book
ii)Think about the goals you wanted to achieve till this time you are in. Write them down.
iii)Write down the goals which you didn't achieve
iv)Write down explaining shortly and clearly why you didn't achieve those goals
v)Write down the solutions for solving the problem
vi)Make a new plan to achieve those goals
vii)Work your plan
viii)Track your progress by repeating the process.

There you go, simple as i said yet deep focus and dedication is needed to pull that through. BE GREAT!!

SUCCESS= GOD + YOU + YOUR PLAN..

Proverbs 16:1-3 (GNT)

1 We may make our plans, but God has the last word.^[a]

² You may think everything you do is right, but the Lord judges your motives.
³ Ask the Lord to bless your plans, and you will be successful in carrying them out.

Today i just want to remind about God, you know a lot of times we have been trying to do things with our own strength but we end up failing again and again. Listen you can't be successful if you leave God out of equestion, because no one own all successes than God himself. He has all wisdom to make you a champion in  whatever you do. Problem is most of us think that we are fine without God, no way we are totally mistaken.

You can think all you want, you can stay all night long creating an idea but know that it's only God who makes your plans to successful. Why don't you change your heart today and start partnering with God. He is a best partner in the whole world, he wants just to be welcomed. True success is hidden in God.

 Since i knew this secret it has simplified my work so much and life at large that i don't struggle to do things alone cause i know am with God. Every time i share with him about anything i think or want to do and wonderful still i get always a fresh and unique ideas. Sometimes people wonder where do i get the ideas from?..I tell my partner God gives me the ideas..

You have a dream and you want it to be successful?!..committ to God and it will succeed.

SOUL FOOD FOR SUCCESS- (unplugged)

i) Michael Jordan

ii) Nelson Mandela

iii) Abraham Lincon

iv) Muhammad Ali

v)Napoleon Bonaparte

vi)Martin Luther King jr.

viii) Malcom X

viii) Winston Churchill

ix) Michael Jackson

* Believe you can become great person like them even more than them just believe and believe*

WRITE YOUR OWN SCRIPT OF LIFE.

As i write this to you think  as an individual. Just take a moment and examine your life till where you are now. Do you like the way it is?!, Do you hate it?! Do you regret when you look at it?! or you too don't even understand your own life. With all that question is do you want to change it and become the way you love it to be?!...okay good, it's simple and am going to tell you why and how.

The reason now you look at your life and hate it's not bad luck but it's because all this long you have been trying to live according to people's expectations and not yours. Your unhappy life is because you gladly let others write their own scripts into your life. Today you are full of regrets just because you wanted to make your dad happy for the course or career you didn't love from your heart, you are miserable today because you embarrased yourself just to gain cheap popularity and acceptance to people who even didn't care about you.

 You have become a failure today because you let people control and dictate what happens in your life. But it can change today if you decide. The life you have is so precious gift you will ever get and you are the only one who can control it. People always will want to project their scripts of failures into other people so that they can be comfortable when in same level of misery, but you can say no today and start writting your own fresh  script of life. Others will have control over your script only if you allow them.

Look at yourself aren't you tired of being under the depression of your dad's unmet expectations?!.aren't tired of being called a loser?! aren't you?!...well if you are then it's time to change the script of your life. Kick out all the authors and editors and become your own writer and publisher of success,greatest and happiness. Time for others  controlling you is over and direct your own movie from your own script.

                           ****WRITE YOUR OWN SCRIPT****

THE POWER OF TONGUE

A lot of times people may wonder why they don't succeed in life and think that success is in the hands of few individuals. Well no, success is entitled to anyone who desires, it's  not special thing at all. I have been asking myself why many people stay failures forever in the lives.

I discovered something which is yet normally used by people everyday but they under estimate the power it has in their lives, is called TONGUE. Am going to share with you a scripture from the bible which talks broadly about the impact of tongues into our lives.

It reads from James 3:2-6 (NIV) 2 We all stumble in many ways. If anyone is never at fault in what he says, he is a perfect man, able to keep his whole body in check. 3 When we put bits into the mouths of horses to make them obey us, we can turn the whole animal. 4 Or take ships as an example. Although they are so large and are driven by strong winds, they are steered by a very small rudder wherever the pilot wants to go. 5 Likewise the tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great boasts. Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark. 6 The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole person, sets the whole course of his life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell.

Here the bible talks about the power lies in your tongue, when you look at verse 2, it says If anyone is never at fault in what he says, he is a perfect man, able to keep his whole body in check. This means that whoever rules his/her own tongue has succeeded to take total control of their lives. Our tongues have the full ability to change our lives. The conversation we engage in daily life has an impact to our dreams.

Is very important to watch out for what you allow to speak through your tongue cause our tongues are like bits in mouth of a horse where we can control it to any direction we wish to be taken. Which means the words passing through your tongue everyday alter your life in the same direction. If you speak good always that's direction your life will go and vice versa.

Now why our tongues got so much control and power to alter our lives?!..reason is from the book of Proverbs 18:21.

 Your tongue behind it contains life and death. Each word you speak it has power of death or life in it. That's why you may wonder  you don't pass in life simply because of your tongue.Your tongue creates what you speak. And this is a secret successful people know that they have to choose what to say since whatever they get out of their tongues has huge influence in their lives. Tongue can kill or build your life, you just have to be careful even with people and conversations you engage in. Don't dream to be great while all the time you are in convos of fear and impossibilities. Change your tongue and change your life.

 

3 THINGS SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE CHOOSE.

Life has two sides of the coin, one side is SUCCESS and another side is FAILURE. In this world some people live on side S, others on side F but all of these sides are optional. In other word you choose to become independently on which side you want to be. Our lives today are products our choices not good or bad luck.

You can change your life today in a blink of an eye just by choice of which side you are going to roll on from now on. Most people admire to be like Henry Ford, Warren Buffet, Steve Jobs but they wonder why they can't be like them because what they don't know is these great men to reach where they are, they made a choice to become successful and not otherwise. It's simple you can be way better than them only thing you need to do is "make a choice".

I have been following up successful people and discovered that is not enough only to choose to be a success but there things you need to choose too in order to engraft and feed your success always. There are three things successful people choose.

i)They choose what they think.

Is so important to take a good care of what you think , because what you think is what you become. Meaning that your thoughts have power behind it to influence your life either in wrong or right direction. Successful people realize that it's the serious matter to consider when it comes to choose what to think because thoughts control your life totally. So if you aspire to become successful in life the first choice you have to make is what to think. Start thinking like a successful person in your mind because success is attracted by those who have same bondage with it.

ii)They choose what they read.
Successful people don't read everything they come across but they are selective to what they read. Because words too have power to change your life hence they sink directly into your heart and affect it. If you always read about gossips that's what you will become a gossiper always noisy in people's business, if you always read about investing,business that's what you will become.

 So you have to watch out what to read. Don't go around reading things which make you afraid that you will fail,which make no growth to your mind in a positive way. Also another things if you don't have the habit of reading it's better you start cultivating one because successful people are good readers and students. 

Reading good materials which adds to your personality of success makes your territory of knowledge expand more and more. It makes you know things which other people don't know.

iii)They choose who to hang around with.
This is where most of us don't become successful because of the friends we have. As you aspire to become successful in life you have to reach the level of knowledge where you must be selective of whom you should call your friend because not everyone you talk to is your friend. Friends have a large contribution whether to your success or failure. You can not expect to be motivated while hanging around with the people who are unmotivated. Friends are like elevator they either take you up or down, they either drain your energy or charge it more. Choose to be around people who are greater than you because they will always keep on track and motivation to reach where you want to reach.

It's high time you need to evaluate your friends and their impact in your life. It's better to stay with only one friend who will make you reach your full potential than having thousands of friends who always take you backwards. One person quoted this "Once you decide to be successful it will cost you friendship, because there some friends who feel comfortable when you are not growing, once you grow your wings and fly you start becoming a problem to them".

Don’t Get It Twisted: 12-Year-Old CEO Building Bow-Tie Business Empire.

                                                  This really challenged me today.

THE FIVE GREAT LIVES DOCUMENTARY.

i) Warren Buffet "Trust is expensive don't give it to cheap people".

ii) Henry Ford "Whether you think you can or not you are right".

iii)Albert Einstein "Imagination is powerful than knowledge".

iv)Steve Jobs "We don't sell products but we sell dreams".

v)Thomas Edison "I didn't fail 999 times but i have found 999 ways in which electricity can not work".

                       Have great time while transforming your life.

Will Smith interview with Barack Obama.

Inspiration of success from actor WILL SMITH.

Among people i love to watch and hear the broadness of their wisdom is Will Smith. he is so marvelous inspirator and this short clip will change your mind just pay attention.

Remember,

STARTING YOUR OWN COMPANY MADE SIMPLE.

Before i started out my company i used to think that you must have a big and decorative building located somewhere. So with this persipective i thought if you had all of that you are good to go.

 But it came to my mind that, how much time will it take for me to get a building for the company because am starting out with plan in my hands but with no capital? . Realistically it was impossible,so it made me want to give up.One day i was watching several documentaries of great business icons in the world like Bill gates,google guys and Mark Zuckerburg to see how they started their own companies. I was amazed at what i found.

What i was thinking and i what i found were totally contradicting. For me i thought to start a company there must be a building first and equipments but to these great people it was not about building first, it was about inside them. These people started their company from inside their hearts.

Everything you see today with your eyes started withinthe hearts of  people. Same applies to starting your own company, you have to pioneer it first in your heart and that's when it can be created outside you. You can't possess what you don't see inside you. That's why changes start from inside-out.

You may desire to own a multi-billion business like bill gates, it is possible because he is just a human being like you. Only thing you need to start first is not with capital ,building or equipments but  you must start it inside you, you have to see it from your heart.

I have used this method and it has worked so dearly. My office is in my room where i sleep but in my heart there is large company in progress with big building. Sometimes people get suprised when they ask me where is you office?, i always tell them "you are already in my office headquaters  cause i am the office". Most of them laugh at me and think  am not serious, but i am dead serious. In my mindset all i know is am founder of very big company world wide with amazing partners and stuffs, so as people wake up going to work in the morning i also go to work. Am visualizing my company in my heart everyday i work. You might face same question from people about location of your office and you might get discouraged when they think you are crazy. No!..don't because success starts from inside to outside not outside to inside.

Starting your own company is easy, create it first in your heart and you will see it with your own eyes as you work towards it.

SUCCESS WITHOUT COMMITTMENT IS JUST A WISH.

Hey you!...yeah you,...how are you doing?!!...stick around for a second, i want to share with you something important.

I absolutely know that you have aspirations of being successful person one day..right?. Okay i was just like you seeing the same in my heart. But i missed one concept of being successful throughout my life till yesterday.

Yesterday was my 26th birthday, a very big day and i was supposed to break loose doing nothing serious but having fun. As i was happily receiving wishes from family and friends, one person came and took me out of fun, and that person is called COMMITTMENT whom i want to tell you about.

Once you register your name in the book of success, you will have to face a judge committment to take an oath of staying faithful to success member's club. So let's describe this person called committment.

Am going to describe this person in three ways.
i)

See..if you want to be successful you have to stay committed in what you do. Staying dedicated to something means staying connected to something everyday of your life. Success and committment are two joint heirs working together but many people want to be friends with success only and leaving out committment forgetting that you can't have one without the other. The idea of being success in your head might be over whelming but when reality sets in, you will notice it was not what you imagine. Are you dedicated to whatever you are doing?

ii)

Here is where you have been confusing yourself. Many times you may have interests doing things at the time when you feel comfortable thinking that is committment no!.you are deadly mistaken. Being committed doesn't make you feel comfortable rather it pushes you harder. Right now as am writting to you this article am feeling sick from fever,flu and most of all coughing. But committment doesn't care whether you are sick or not,only thing is expected are results. I will have to take some tablets and sleep but i can't do that till i finish my work since committment won't let me do that. So check on what you do, are you doing it for interest or committment?. Without being committed forget about results and success.

iii)

Have seen this with many people that they get to promise to be fully involved in project,relationship but after few hours they can't fulfill what they promised. This is because many get excited about things according to their grounds of mood. Committment is not depending on your mood but it depends on your willing power to get into something deeply. You can't succeed in life if you are driven by your moods cause successful people don't play that game of emotions but play the game of committment. They stay loyal and focused till the end of their dreams.

Now how can you stay committed to your dream?!

Passion.......! Passion.......! Passion........!

That's only way to stay committed to your dream in order to become successful. In other words be able to love what you do and do what you love that's passion. Don't expect to be committed to something you are not passionate about, otherwise you will be lying to yourself and waste a lot of time. Ask any committed person how is able to stay dedicated to what he does, the answer will be "am passionate". Though i am writthing this to you  feeling sick it's because am passionate about what i do and i love it to death.

Passion is the great fuel to your committment in success club. Are you passionate about what you do?
     
           STAY COMMITTED, ACCEPT NO EXCUSES BUT RESULTS ONLY

HAPPY 26th BIRTHDAY TO ME(The more gratitude you have the more you receieve the gift of life)

Till yesterday i have learnt how to be thankful to God for being alive. Today is 26th birthday a very special day to appreciate where God has brought me. I thought celebrating big day like this was all about partying and drinking as many people would say but i was totally wrong.

Yesterday i discovered the secret of those who are always happy in life.

i)If you are alive is the greatest gift you will ever receive from God, so be thankful always. Not everyone who makes it to see the sun light of the day.

ii)Being happy is about accepting who you were created to be and capture the present moment,enjoy each hour,minute and second in the roller coaster of life.

iii)Being happy is not about throwing a big party but is having people around you who love and care about you always.

                   THANKS TO GOD AND MY FRIENDS FOR MAKING THIS SPECIAL DAY.

LIVING MEANINGFUL AND FRUITFUL LIFE.

Today as i was meditating the word of God, i found out 2 major secrets of living meaning and fruitful life. And i want to share with you these secrets because they are so important to have them in your life. Your life won't in anyway be successful if you leave out these two concepts. The scripture reads,

In this scripture the bible talks about two major things each person should be able to figure out if you want to live meaningful and fruitful life. It talks about, i)Purpose  ii)Time. If you want to live a fulfilling life you have to seriously consider those two things. Without them there is no chance of you making it in life or anything.So lets look at them in deep.

1)  PURPOSE.
What is purpose?

God created everything for a purpose including you and me.You exist in this world for reason not just to waste time. That's why the bible says "look carefully then how you walk,not as unwise but as wise", meaning God is expecting you each day  to make sure that you are in line of your purpose.Many live in this world but don't why they live,it is a big tragedy to many. What gives meaning to your life is when you know your purpose. No matter how excellent and big you do things and people praise you, if they are not compacted to the purpose they will be meaningless. At the end of the day before God the account we will give is what we did with our purpose during our time in the world. Everyday take some few minutes or hours to screen closely your life to discover whether you know why you are living. People of purpose are those who conquer the world because they know what they are here for and what they are doing. Now you may ask yourself that how do i know my purpose?!...well here is the simple way to know,

Become one of those people who live meaningful and fruitful life of purpose. It's possible if you decide.

ii) TIME.
The bible says "make the best use of time because the days are evil" meaning that your purpose in life is  programmed in time zone. So the day you were created and brought in this world your clock started ticking right away. So is very important to use your time wisely. I have seen many youths aspire to be successful in life but make the worst use of their time by watching TV 24/7 a day, engaging in unproductive social conversations,playing games all day.

Your purpose is accomplished within timeline you were given. Sadly still you don't know that one thing which is not in abudance of life is time, once its wasted it can never be recovered. The more you waste time the more you increase chances of failures and regrets in your life. Every hour,minute and second you live in has been programmed for you to finish intended step to your purpose. You have to watch carefully things you do,talk,read,plan and think.Because all are bound in time. Your time is greatest asset you have.

Save time because you will never get another time. Ask yourself what do you spend most of your time on?..chatting,sleeping. or what?. You don't have enough time so whatever you want to do, do it now. Let your time be spent on things which are meaningful to your life and purpose. You have a dream or vision?, tie it to your purpose and time then you will live unbeatable life.

----Successful man is the man whose life is engrafted to sense of purpose and time----